The distance of Love

What I have noticed in this world of addictions and the way that love is portrayed is how men measure the distance of love by the magic number of 7 or 9 inches when it comes to length and they view relationships by the distance between body parts such as legs or breasts. But what God judges as expressed through the writings of St. Paul as one's ability to grasp (within one's mind) the height, the depth and breadth and width of God's love. It can not be found through fantasizing or participating in a realm of non-commitment. It can only be found in a personal harmonious relationship to God. For no physical distance or measurement can substitute for the relationship one has to God. Yet, it is a hard thing to measure or fathom. Even if one does have the exact dimensions involved.